What accomplishments would feel great to reach by year-end? How does decluttering fit into the picture? Make this the year that you reap the benefits of organized spaces so you can enjoy them!
Imagine how uplifting it will feel to sit in your organized space, marveling at your accomplishments and how they have positively impacted your life. Use all of your available senses to make it feel real. What feeling does it impart? Are there any pleasant smells wafting from the kitchen? Is there a fresh breeze from a newly opened window that smells fantastic? Are you smiling as you crack open the library book and notice that particular smell? What do you see around you? A reading corner? A crafting station? A cleared-off desk or dining room table? What displayed artwork and décor is making you smile? Perhaps a painting tucked away in the back of the closet for years is now a joy to see on the wall? Admiring your beautifully arranged crafting station whose colors elicit a smile? Maybe family members admire a unique collection that is now on display? What are you touching? The soft fabric on your newly cleared couch? The rough texture on the pages of a book you are reading? The smoothness of the electrical cords you are using in your workshop? The cool stickiness of the dough that you are kneading? Maybe the fuzziness of the yarn you are knitting into a hat? What are you feeling? The coolness of the desk’s surface on the side of your hand as you write? The slight breeze on your arm from that open window? What sounds do you hear? The Sound of Silence album you once deemed lost forever? The sound of birds singing, now that you replaced the old melodious refrigerator? The crinkly cover on that library book? The raucous sound of family and friends laughing? The literal sound of silence that your calmed mind now allows you to enjoy? What activity is happily engrossing you? Are you fearlessly knocking out important tasks left and right, now that your office area is clear? Sitting in a bright, cozy corner while you enjoy a riveting book your friend recommended? Guiltlessly watching your favorite guilty TV show as you ride your stationary bike? Eating your favorite meal at the dining room table? How does it taste? Like victory, I bet! See how the newly appointed space makes other parts of your life easier and more enjoyable? Think about how your decluttered spaces can increase free time to enjoy a new hobby or deepen essential relationships. Your increased confidence can even spill over into other areas of your life you cannot yet imagine. Make this vision as concrete as possible. Then, revisit it often so you can emotionally connect with that goal. The less abstract it feels, the better. This vision of yours can come to fruition this year! Imagine the possibilities!
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You might have declared, “This year will be THE year I get organized!” Excellent! There is nothing like the rush of a new year to capitalize on excitement and propel ourselves forward with incredible momentum. We will succeed!
Try something that might sound odd at first blush. Stop before you start. More explicitly, pause. Take some time to think about exactly why you want to get organized. Grab a pen and paper and write down the reason. Now, dig deeper. Then deeper again. Why? That more significant reasoning is often a more powerful motivation than our first reason. That more substantial reason is the gold that will keep you going. Here is how it might play out: John wants to organize his dining room table to serve meals there once again. He briefly examines this because he can think of ten other projects he would rather do than tame the mountainous topography on the tabletop. Each time he asks why, he uncovers a more in-depth reason. Ultimately, he realizes that clearing the table means he has space to invite his nephews to his home. They share his love of cooking. Their mutual interest will help him get to know them better before they head off to school. Clearing the dining room table becomes exponentially more meaningful to John because it will deepen his bonds with his nephews and create great memories. He discovers that starting and maintaining progress becomes painless because he is more emotionally invested than he was with his first reason. What is your why? Give this exercise a go as John did. You might be surprised to find how much energy the pause generates! If you have a half hour to dedicate to a decluttering session, you do not have thirty minutes to declutter. It sounds strange, but it makes sense once you understand an often-missed part of a decluttering session.
With a thirty-minute session, you only have approximately twenty minutes to dedicate to decluttering. You will need to allot the last ten minutes for tidying up. This can understandably feel counterintuitive. Why waste time cleaning up an area that is still in the process of being organized? After all, we will just waste more time at the beginning of the next session pulling things out again, right? Well, yes, but there are excellent reasons to dedicate sufficient time to cleaning up at the end of each session. If you can overcome the common gut-level reaction to abandon ship without tidying, you can avoid these unpleasant surprises: Lost organizing supplies: When you are already exerting admirable effort to declutter, it can be frustrating to waste time looking for Sharpies, tape, and other supplies. It also cuts down the available time for the actual decluttering. Inadvertently dismantled progress: Adorable pets can unintentionally intertwine previously sorted piles when they walk over them. This especially rings true for beloved felines, although beloved canines can get in on the action. Fellow two-legged companions can accidentally undo your work, too. They might knock over an unsecured pile as they walk through a space. Additionally, they might not realize that a pile results from your efforts and thus attempt to help by putting one pile on top of another. The paper notes that act as your crumb trails can act as the same for your companions. Additionally, containing piles can secure them for the four-legged companions who can’t read. Forgetting where you left off: It can be incredibly frustrating to remember precious free time spent on decluttering, only to waste time trying to remember where we left off. Tidying up includes leaving crumb trails for our awesome future selves who return for a second session. Our initial reaction is often, “Oh, I’ll remember what these piles are when I return tomorrow.” This harmless lie we tell ourselves causes unnecessary angst. The vast majority of us mere mortals (me included) will have to spend at least some time reorienting ourselves to exactly where we left off. This is especially true when tomorrow turns into next week or next month. Why not decrease the reorientation time? Trust me on this one and save your future self time by writing notes as to what pile is what. Bonus points for listing out the next step as well. Little, and not so little, injuries: Slippery piles of clothes and papers make excellent launching pads for falls. The last thing we need when putting in laudable effort is injury. That would not only impede progress but would also naturally make organizing seem downright dangerous. If there is ever a reason to avoid a task, there is nothing like danger to convince us to retreat. Getting discouraged: Clutter can temporarily grow as we sort it into categories. Like the incoming tide on a beach, it can temporarily expand, but it needs to recede again at the end of a session. If not, the expansion might dampen our motivation to continue. Avoiding These Pitfalls: If you tidy up at the end of each decluttering session, you will feel great about the fruits of your labor and speed up your wins at the next session. So, give session-tidying a try. Your future self will shower you with accolades. They might even amusingly say, “Thank you, Past Me, for helping Current Me save precious time! You are so thoughtful!” |
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